Soul Connections part 2.
I wanted to talk a little bit more about Soul connections. This is going to be a little bit different then what you read a lot about concerning Soul Connections. The common belief is that there are three different types of Soul connections, Karmic Soul Connections, Soulmate Connections and Twin Flame Connections. Karmic connections are connections that you make or people that come into your lives to teach you some type of lesson or are there for a specific reason or purpose,or perhaps you are there to help them with something. These type of connections typically serve a specific purpose and then they leave once that purpose has been fulfilled. Soulmate connections are part of a community of souls that travel with you from Lifetime to Lifetime. They can come in many different forms in order to teach you different aspects of yourself. Sometimes they will show you these things about yourself that you are not aware of or need to learn and visa versa. The connection is often stronger and we often have a more instant recognition of them. We often call them or Soul family because of the deeper connection. The third connection is called the Twin Flame connection. This connection is said to be two halves of one soul that is split in half and separated in order to learn how to love each other basically. It is viewed that this is the highest and most attainable love there is.
And this is where the beliefs begin to differ and many will probably HATE this concept! But here is my belief on the subject.I believe that the twin flame connection is over romanticized and not realistic. We all desire to love and to be loved by that one love that will last for all eternity. However the concept of Two Souls split in half doesn't seem to make a lot of sense. There are many lessons for us to learn but in The Grand Design of things, we are meant to evolve the soul which is difficult to do when it split in half.
We were designed with free will and if you split the soul into halves then each soul will take on its own individuality. This could seriously complicate things as each half of that soul will evolve according to their own free will. If they choose to go in opposite directions in their evolution then the souls will change and there could be the possibility, a strong possibility, that they will never reconnect. The soul needs to remain whole in order for it to evolve wholly. The chances of both Souls continuously working together and not changing that path with individual free will is very unlikely. Our situations and our experiences shape us and there's no guarantee how it will shape us. We assume that the soul knows itself and will continue down the same path as the other half but when we put free will into the mix both halves of the Soul now become individual Souls and are able to make their own choices according to what they want,need or desire.
In my own life experience, I have ran across many soulmates. I have come across two that would be considered a twin flame because the connection was much deeper then with anyone else I have ever encountered. The first one came in my youth and for whatever reason the relationship or connection never evolved to where it could have been. Even though the connection was there it never moved forward. The second time the connection was also there and it was very similar connection but this one did evolve. According to the theories of twin flames, this is not possible and would be justified that I was wrong about the one that didn't make it. But that's not true because even though I figured alot of things out and accepted alot of things, that connection is still there . It was because of this that I had to rethink the possibilities of twin flames and realized that this common theory of twin flames actually went against almost everything that I believe concerning Soul evolution.
I believe that our main purpose in our existence is to learn to grow and to evolve into whatever it is we choose to be. Like children, we give them life, and they grow into themselves however they grow into themselves. I do not believe that our purpose is to be split in half and to spend lifetimes searching and trying to put ourselves back together again. I don't believe that there is one person for everyone because we have free will to choose. We develop different connections with different people and some of those connections will evolve and they will become a significant part of our lives. Others will evolve but maybe not as far. Each person that we connect with holds a piece of us with them as we hold a piece of them with us. As we continue to move and grow and evolve and they continue to evolve there is a constant change. Just as we change so will those connections. Some of them will continue to grow and some of them will fade away. Each of these connections are unique and special and we carry this with us always but there is never a guarantee that a soul wants to be with you forever.. Our connections will evolve and grow according to how we evolve and grow. Part of the gift of free will is our ability to choose and to have two people who choose to be together will have a greater chance of evolving and joining their souls closer then two Souls who are forced to be together. The connection is the foundation and is meant to draw two people together for the opportunity for it to grow. But the beauty comes from the journey that the two Souls makes in order to move that connection into something deeper and longer lasting. This is where the truth in twin flames are created. There is always the choice to continue can move it forward or no longer evolve it. We are given the basic tools to help grow many opportunities and it's up to us to use them however we see fit. Our connections will grow according to the needs and desires of the souls that are within that connection.
I think a lot of people want a deeper connection but don't want to do the work. I also think alot people are looking for a Feeling that says this is the one and want to connect on a deeper level then ignore the other person has chosen to reflect to the outside world. The person inside the soul isn't always reflected into the person that we show the rest of the world.But because the initial connection is there that creates an opportunity, doesn't mean that both souls are on the same page concerning that opportunity or what they truly desire.
The hardest part about this particular truth is accepting this aspect of it. But it also allows us the opportunity to develop deeper connections with other Souls that have similar or the same desires. It also allows us to Freedom to see how far it can actually go and evolve into what it is that we actually desired. It allows others to pinpoint what it is they desire and possibly breakdown roadblocks that prevent them from attaining the type of connection they truly desire.
The world and the people our ever-changing and as we change so will the people and circumstances around us will also change. The only thing that is constant is change. It is the only guarantee we are given on this journey. So embrace and learn and grow from each Soul connection. Whether it be a positive or negative experience all of these help us to grow and learn to love. To gain a better understanding of what we need as individuals and to also learn to give according to the needs of the other soul. There is not the one but the many and through the many we may find the one and also become the one for the other soul. Having him want and need me as bad as I want and need him, to me, THAT is what a twin flame connection is all about and this seems like the most logical way to find it